I wonder....

27 Dresses

So, maybe I am a little bit crazy of wanting to wear this kind of dress right now. But seriously, they all are beyond the word beautiful. Such a dress is what I would certainly called as a 'DREAM GOWN'. As a girl, I have the right to dream of wearing this dresses too, right? Anyway, I'm not going to babble much for today, I just want to show you some of my favorite dream gown :) so enjoy.

If you're a fashion freak as I do, you might noticed that most of this dresses are haute couture.
Well, who doesn't want to be married in a haute couture?
They're all nothing but UNIQUE!
Which one your favorite? Lemme know :)

wish and resolutions

After a week of living in the same pace as I was before. I think it's time for me to move on, changed and list some resolutions for me to do in this year. It might not much, but at least I make some effort to change the way I am right now :)

2010 RESOLUTIONS

#1. Be an OPTIMIST!
#2. Oversensitive is so over.
#3. Never give up easily
#4. Trust the voice within
#5. Smile more :)
#6. Be lovelable & more sociable
#7. Less Internet, Study More
(well, this one might need much more than an effort)
#8. Treasure Life each day, Live without any regret
#9. Being Miserable? Off the list.
#10. "Whatever" is also off the list.


2010 Wishlist

#1. Graduate with flying color
#2. Go to Germany
#3. Stronger ankle for Pointe work
#4. Successful Grade 6 Exam
#5. To be able to dance "Paquita 4th Variation" & "Esmeralda Variation" before 18
#6. One step closer to crush
#7. Finish one of my "Tsujimarus" Story

one? more like five litre

Somehow at the beginning of the year, I have a strong urge of wanting to watch this J-Dorama again. I've watched this long time ago and never did a thought of re-watching it again crossed my mind until a few days ago.

So, I did. I watched it again. Yesterday. The whole series in just one day and like every other people who watched this drama, I cried my heart out. I think my eyes might be a little swollen. I made the pillow that I hugged wet with tears. It's really ONE LITRE OF TEARS.

Synopsis:

This drama is based on real-life story of Aya Kitou who suffered from an incurable disease called the Spinocerebellar Ataxia, a cruel disease which affects the victim's spinal cord & cerebellum thus, progressive difficulty in coordination. Aya (Sawajiri Erika) was only 15 years old when she first diagnosed. It was the start of her high school life, which for every teenagers, the start of their whole life. Aya suffered a lot, giving up a lot of things in her youth but still she never gave up although there's seems no hope was left for her. No future that she can grasp. But still she was able to lived to her fullest till the end of her time, inspiring a lot of people through a diary she's written till she couldn't hold a pen no longer.

Memorable (and heartbreaking) Quotes:

#1. As I think about the past, the tears will come out.
Reality is too cruel, too brutal.
I don’t even have the right to dream.
As I think about the future, the tears will come out again.

#2. Just that one sentence, ‘I won’t leave you’, encouraged me a lot.
Doctor, thank you for not leaving me.

#3. Why did the disease choose me?
I cannot carry it, if it’s just for the word “fate”.

#4. Regret. Pitiful. It’s okay if I’m in pain by myself.
But I’m also bringing trouble to the people around me.

#5. I really don’t want to say things such as
“I want to go back as how things were before”.
I recognize how I am right now, and I will continue to live on.

#6. Just being alive is such a lovely and wonderful thing.

#7. Even though I have been hurt before by those heartless glares,
this also helped me to understand that around me, there still exists some gentle glares. Therefore, I definitely won't run away.
That's what I'll do. Definitely. Always.

#8. Where should I head towards?
Even if there isn't answer, I'll feel better by writing it down.
I've looked for a pair of helping hands but I couldn't feel them, couldn't see them.
I only face towards darkness and hear hear the sounds of my hopeless screams.

#9. Okaasan, Will I be able to get married?

#10. When my existence seems to disappear
I will look for the place where I can do the best I can
From now on, I'll deliberate slowly
I won't be impatient
I won't be greedy
I won't give up
Because everyone takes things step by step.

I cried in most of the episode. I cried when Aya first found out about her disease. I cried watching her family struggle. I cried when she was still waiting for Kawamoto-senpai in the rain. I cried when she overheard her classmate comments about her and the scene when she was with Asou-kun at the place when they first met. I cried when Aya decided to leave her school for good. I cried how her classmates are singing a song for her in the gates before she left the school for ever. I cried when she struggled so hard each and every day. I cried when her sister Ako was mad at her brother, Hiro, because he couldn't stand up for her own sister. I cried when I saw how warm her family were. Man. I cried at a lot of scene. I definitely cried at the last three episode, it was emotional!

Watching this drama at the start of the year made me realized a lot of thing that I didn't realize before - that life is a gift and we must treasure every bit of it and live our life to the fullest. I realized that life is not fair - well, it never is. We complained a lot about problems in our life, but the truth is that problems (our problems) are nothing compared to those who have to suffered a lot throughout his/her life, like Aya for example. Her courage to keep on living, even when her vision was filled with tears and there seems like no place for her to go. She kept on living. I'm really touched by that.

Looking on the spiritual side, this made me realized that God is trying to tell me something in His own way. Then I realized how I always complained about my life. How I didn't treasured it as much as I should do. I didn't know what to say as I realized this fact. I was sad - I am young, but I wasted my time. So, I made myself a promised. I won't complain much this year. I want my life to be useful. I want to make a change for people around me. In short, this movie inspired me so much :)

my 2009 life as it seems

I would like to start the first babbling in this year by greeting you all a

"HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010"
It's a new year, hence it's a new beginning for all of us.
Let's face the year ahead with the best that we can give to the world and live each day without any regrets :)

Anyhow, ignorant as I always be, I started this year without much enthusiasm - thinking about how life will be the same as always. Lazing around, watching TV and doing nothing - not even making a list of what to do in this year nor a New Year Resolution.

As the year started, I didn't think much of what I want to be or how I'm gonna live my life. I just want to enjoy my moment of freedom, so I was as carefree as I can be and ignored every questions that were pointing at me, asking me to decide my future as soon as possible.

Well, this is what I found kinda scary. Soon, I'm going to graduated from high school. Time is not stopping for me, and I've got to decide on how I'm going to lived my life. Phew, what a question it is. I can't be a kid again this year, I must be a fully grown up. And a grown-ups' life is surely full of problem, I hate that. I hate problems. Sometimes I wished I was Peter Pan, one who never grew up. But, it is not likely to happened.

So, after a few days, I thought a lot. I thought about my life. How my 2009 has been going - not really well on some part I supposed, but somehow I found difference in my life. I'm not who I used to be. I'm growing up - without me noticing it. I should have find it as a scary thing, as I hated growing up so much, but instead I find it funny.

I've faced a lot of problems, problems that made me break down and cried so many times. (As I recalled, I remember I cried a lot in 2009) Even at some point, I thought about suicide - which was really a crazy thing.

BUT...

I thanked God because I'm still sane and alive till this time :)

Okay, so this is getting more and more awkward. I ain't going to babbled about this again, it's weird to see how my writing style changed. LOL. Well, to tell the truth, I've a lot of change inside me myself - even from the smallest thing that seems unimportant.

Well then, whatever peeps, I'm still here by the way. I'm still me. Even if everything changed, I'm still and going to be me :)